Showing posts with label modesty. Show all posts
Showing posts with label modesty. Show all posts

Tuesday, April 3, 2012

Stay Away From What Many of the Women are Doing Today

Shaykh Saalih Al-Fawzaan:

“It is upon the woman who fears Allaah and the hereafter to stay away from what many of the women are doing today such as being lackadaisical with the hijaab and easy-going with wearing decorative garments when going outside and being lax with using perfume when going out of the house and intermingling with men and joking with them.


Allaah, the Most High, said to His Prophet’s wives:


“Then do not be soft in speech, lest he in whose heart there is a disease (of fornication) should be moved with desire. But rather speak in an honorable manner.” [Ahzaab: 32]

If a woman has a need to speak to a man that is not one of her mahaarim, she may speak to him, but with a casual tone that has no softness or gentleness in it, and not in a joking or laughing manner.


Rather her speech must be ordinary and in accordance with what necessity dictates – i.e. a question and an answer – as per the need only.


She must not speak in a tone that appears friendly, laughing or teasing, or in a mellow or beautiful voice, thus stirring the desire of the one who has a disease in his heart. This is based on Allaah’s saying:


“But rather speak in an honorable manner.” [Ahzaab: 32]


So the Muslim women of today must fear Allaah with respect to themselves and their societies.”


[Taken from "Four Essays On The Obligation Of Veiling". Chapter: "Advice To Muslim Women" by Shaykh Saalih Al-Fawzaan, p. 72]

Wednesday, September 16, 2009

Rulings Derived From the Evidences on Hijaab


AUTHOR:  Shaikh Zayd bin Muhammad Al-Madkhalee
SOURCE:  His Treatise "Wujoob Sitr-il-Wajhi wal-Kafayn"
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First: A clarification of the rulings that can be derived from the evidences o­n Hijaab, and they are as follows:

1. The obligation of the legislated Hijaab is definite and binding o­n all of the believing women, there being no room for lenience or negotiation with regard to abolishing it or belittling its status and its significance.

2. A clarification that the Prophet’s (sallallahu 'alayhi wa sallam) chaste wives and noble daughters serve as the best examples and most outstanding role models for all Muslim women when it comes to implementing the issue of Hijaab.

3. The prescribed Hijaab is that which covers a woman’s adornment, garments and all of her body, which includes the face and the hands.

4. The obligation of wearing the Hijaab o­n the Muslim woman consists of honoring her status, raising her rank, and protecting her dignity and personality. In fact it protects the whole society from the avenues of mischief and corruption appearing in it and the spreading of vile acts amongst its people and inhabitants.

5. A severe warning to the Muslim woman against her wearing that which will make the eyes of men look towards her or which will make their hearts incline to her or which will incite the causes of mischief. Such enticements include wearing perfumes and cosmetics. However she is permitted to wear these when she is in the presence of her husband or her male guardians according to the limits of the noble Religion.

6. There is nothing wrong with children, young boys and whoever else falls under their ruling, to enter into a woman’s presence due to the lack of there occurring any fitnah or danger from them, as is apparent from the Qur’aan.

7. The obligation of repenting to Allaah in general and to seek forgiveness for falling short of abiding by the Hijaab in particular, hoping for Allaah’s Contentment and Mercy, and desiring to attain success in both this world and the next life, acting o­n Allaah’s statement:

“And turn in repentance to Allaah, all of you, O believers, in order that you may be successful.”
[Surah An-Noor: 31]